well just got off the phone with my brother mike, hes on his way home.i really wanted to see him before he left seems the only time we see each other is at funerals or like this time his grandbaby was in the hospital. none of us are getting any younger hes got a very bad back problem,hes allready had two operations and maybe has to have another i geuss the pins they put in only two fused the other two didnt.i feel really bad for him .his wife has been really sick since hes been gone i geuss sean his wife has a very bad infection in her jaw plus shes suffering from allergies and to top it all off she was slicing bread and sliced her finger instead ,had to go and get stitches.mike decided it was time to return home.the doctor told her she needed to get alot of rest to fight the infection in her jaw but with lil ones at home thats hard to do.i wouldnt dout for a min.that the war zone he popped in on .here probubly is a factor too in a way i know it is.well anyway maybe something can be learned from all this theres a time and a place for everything and this family needs to understand that,hopfully this is a begining .damn i wanted to see him before left oh well hopfully this time we can keep in touch .i really do hope so. well thats it,lata ppl