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Life & Events > Life Goes Through Various Ups and Downs

  Life Goes Through Various Ups and Downs

I've always loved rollercoasters, since the first time I got one with my dad when I was about 7. It is one of those rare memories that I treasure with my father. I was clenching the railing on the old wooden rollercoaster, scared to death and frozen in fear. He saw my trepidation and said with a smile, "Yell, you have to yell or its no fun!" As we plunged down the first hill, I yelled as loud as I could and by the time we came up on the next hill, I was laughing. It's always been that way with rollercoasters. I have no fear of them and will ride any and every one. "The Hulk" at Universal which takes off at 55mph is my particular favorite. There's something cleansing about it. When I'm really stressed, a rollercoaster ride is just the thing to cheer me up and relieve my momentary stress. Funny why that is the analogy I've chosen of my life.

One thing about a rollercoaster ride, you don't get off when the ride's half over, you ride till the end.

No matter what the ups and downs of my life may be, I'm on this ride to stay. One thing about rollercoaster rides, there's always another hill to climb, but the fun is going down the other side.

Older son has moved back in -- temporarily and believe me it is temporary. My empty nest has now become full to the brim once again. I don't know how I feel about this. I was enjoying my freedom. Now I just feel responsibility -- again. What can I say! Can't wait to come down the other side of this hill.




posted on July 7, 2008 6:39 AM ()

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You've got a great attitude Deb.
comment by shesaidwhat on July 11, 2008 4:34 AM ()
Hang on, Deb, and don't forget to breathe and laugh!
comment by marta on July 7, 2008 10:16 PM ()
That's what I'm doing
reply by teacherwoman on July 8, 2008 5:26 AM ()
You are so right about how life can really be a roller coaster. It adds excitement to our experiences, and it creates challenges. I wouldn't give up the ride for anything, though.
AJ
comment by lunarhunk on July 7, 2008 11:43 AM ()
Nope, and I never will. You just don't get off in the middle of the ride, do you AJ
reply by teacherwoman on July 7, 2008 3:38 PM ()
I completely understand the feelings of responsibilty. When trhey're out of the house, you are less aware of them, I think. I remember when my youngest son moved back in for a couple of months, I get up at 1 a.m. and check his room. If he wasn't there, I'd worry until his car finally pulled into the driveway. Then, I'd sneak back to bed so that he wouldn't know I was checking on him.
Rollercoasters, huh? NOPE! God created fear for a reason, as far as I'm concerned. I interpret fear as my brain's way of telling me, "Don't be stupid!" I ALWAYS listen to my brain!
comment by hayduke on July 7, 2008 9:25 AM ()
Understood. My brother doesn't do them either, but it's one of my "highs." I think it is part of the whole parenting thing. You just never shake it!
reply by teacherwoman on July 7, 2008 9:30 AM ()
Why do you feel responsible?
I guess not being a parent I don't understand why you aren't more just like roommates with an adult child living in your house... although any new person is an adjustment!
I think it's great though that you are willing to help him.
comment by kristilyn3 on July 7, 2008 8:11 AM ()
It's a mom thing, kristy. REsponsible for meals, cleaning, etc. I always revert to the "mom" part of me. I'm going to insist that he is a roommate for sure.
reply by teacherwoman on July 7, 2008 8:32 AM ()
Great way to look at life!
comment by strider333 on July 7, 2008 7:32 AM ()
It's the only way that I've found!
reply by teacherwoman on July 7, 2008 7:34 AM ()
Indeed!!! Enjoy the ride. It's yours!
comment by spicybitch on July 7, 2008 7:08 AM ()
reply by teacherwoman on July 7, 2008 7:09 AM ()

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